However, the reality is that neither aspect can survive without the other. Although physical attractiveness is what is usually what ignites the spark it is up to compatibility to turn that spark into a flame. The same is said for compatibility because there is no comparing without an initial physical interaction. For example no one walks down the street as says that women looks like she is intellectual ( at least no smart person would say that without initial contact).We are visual beings no matter how odd or harsh it sounds we like people that appeal to us; part of appeal is the outer spectrum whether its body, face, or both we all judge these things.
It has become a cliché to say beauty is only skin deep. Which I agree with all except the is only because there isn’t a skin deep without the skin. A person can never go deeper then the outer appearance if there isn’t an outer appearance. Even when as humans read books we are able to connect to the characters by visual imagery then, compatibility.
Or take a doctor for example before his or her nurse gives you a shot she or he must find the right spot on the skin because only then will the nurse be able to pierce the skin to go deeper inside the human body. The nurse will not ever be able to give the shot correctly if her or she does not look or does not know where to put the shot. So attractiveness is the composite of two attributes the physical and compatibility.
Another reason why these two make ups of attractiveness go hand and hand is that the physical is natural a power that at times can be unsustainable whereas compatibility is a base on strengths and weaknesses in a person personality.