The other aspect of attractiveness is compatibility comes once physical attraction

is overcome whether the person realizes that there is more to that particular person

beyond the physical or the physical attraction ignites a desire to get to know the person

better. According to The science – Emotional brain holds what is attractive to us

states that in order…

“To deeply understand the foundation of a bonding response…. take a look at what an intimate relationship is between two people. Intimacy is marked by close acquaintance, association or familiarity and characterized by informality and privacy. This essential, innermost human relationship can be experienced in a familiar glance, a private touch or even the smell of a close friend[1]

Intimacy. is the result of compatibility, because of compatibility once a person

gets past the physical a relationship can develop where deep conversation can be

explored and evolve anew bond between two individuals making them whole.

Compatibility" is one of the first looks into the biological basis for human attachment and bonding…said Rebecca Turner, Ph.D., University of California-San Francisco adjunct assistant professor of psychiatry and lead author of the study…Our study indicates that oxytocin may be mediating emotional experiences in close relationships…It seems that having this hormone "available" during positive experiences, and not being depleted of it during negative experiences, is associated with well-being in relationships," [2]

Compatibility is about forming relationships whether it’s a friendship or a

intimate relationship compatibility forms the bond that connects people to one another

good or bad. The relationships formed can be based upon many aspects such as common

interest, totally opposite interest, and neutral views. The love between two individual all

start with physical attraction but without compatibility there is no connection and the
progression to succeed in a relationship will be altered to a point of nonexistence
[1] The Art of Sciences The science – Emotional brain holds what is attractive to us, http://home.att.net/~coachthee/Archives/attractiveness.html, December 12,2005

[2] The Art of Sciences The science – Emotional brain holds what is attractive to us, http://home.att.net/~coachthee/Archives/attractiveness.html, December 12,2005